Agree on Testosterone and premarital sex. On that note, I taught kids that the responsibility of having sex — and its after effect, that’s what kids need to think about. I taught a novel to kids in which when the girl said stop.. the boy stopped. Always did. That’s what made him heroic.

Politics— skip it.

I think you are wrong about what mature women want. They want a man to be kind and to be someone who treats them with respect. That is part of the make up of men that are there for them when things are not going as one hoped. Humility— let me tell ya something. Few women (Or men) like a braggart. Arrogance is not attractive. Listening to understand is something that few do and when a woman meets a man who is interested in what she has to say rather than what they are going to say… that’s a special guy.
Stoic.
Smart.
Wu lol long to compromise ( especially important in a marriage and as a father).
If you bring those qualities to your children Especially your boys, girls will flock to them. More importantly, they will grow up to make a difference in the lives they touch.

Ps. I’m married 39 years. My kids are adults 34 and 31. They are independent and empowered.

Pps. As for gay. Etc. I wish all folks the chance for love and whom to love.

Thanks for asking me a question. By the way , the Army Captain I referred to served two tours of duty there. I love the guy. One of the finest men I ever taught. Captain Mike Baskin.