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I Dare You to Be Cynical Around Mr. Rogers

Robert Pacilio
2 min readDec 17, 2019
Amol Tyagicourtsey of Upsplash

I walked out of “It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood” then turned to my wife of 34 years and simply smiled and said, “I feel better. I just feel better about life, don’t you?” She reached for my hand and squeezed. It is our secret code. I’m guessing many couples have that ‘tell’ that conveys what does not need to be vocalized.

After all, who among us can claim we can keep it all inside and not become bitter and cynical?

This film is not so much about Fred Rogers’ life. Last year’s documentary portrayed his life and times poignantly. Rather Tom Hanks’ portrayal is laser focused on the idea that everyone has fears often hidden down deep in our souls that fester into anger and rage — and Fred Rogers’ is quietly imploring us to understand that it’s okay. It’s okay to be afraid and be angry because it is what makes us human. After all, who among us can claim we can keep it all inside and not become bitter and cynical?

We are afraid of so much that we see in the world, whether it is walking down our congested streets, hearing sirens in our cities, or blaring to us via our 24/7 news media cycle. Who in their right mind would not be frightened? Who would be willing to open up to strangers about that anxiety? And if we did, who do we know would even stop to…

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Robert Pacilio
Robert Pacilio

Written by Robert Pacilio

San Diego County “Public School Teacher of the Year.” (32 year veteran) Author of five novels & a memoir available on Amazon and at www.robertpacilio.net.

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